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Ep 150: For Men: New Sex Techniques to Blow Her Mind with Writer Habeeb Akande. This is a must-listen-to episode! It's epic! This episode is geared towards heterosexual men, but heterosexual women will benefit from listening as well. Habeeb Akande, who is a sex expert, historian, and public speaker, shares amazing relationship-improving advice for in the bedroom and out. He shares a special technique practiced in eastern Africa (such as in Rwanda and Kenya) that leads to a very high percentage of women squirting and much sexual pleasure. We chat about the goal of sex, whether that be sexual pleasure, orgasm, or female ejaculation, these are three different things, and of course, we include male ejaculation in this. We must acknowledge the goal of sex is highly subjective and individual. Habeeb shares the culture behind a technique called Kunyaza, which is the secret to female pleasure, and a sexual act that also meets male needs.  This technique is also one that can teach a man ejaculation control while keeping the focus on mutual pleasure. He discusses the sex positive practices for sex education in this culture where Kunyaza is practiced, which also includes inducing the feelings of emotional safety, emotional intimacy, and emotional security. Habeeb and I chatted about the sexual culture of the western world and Europe and how porn that stems from these societies can be both helpful and harmful. He shares with us information he has gathered during his ten years of writing and teaching men about a sex-positive and pleasure-filled approach to sex with their partners. We talk about the needs of men and women and the mutual rights to sexual pleasure and satisfaction. We reiterate the common belief that communication is paramount for all relationships.

Find Habeeb Akande's books on Amazon (affiliate):
Kunyaza: The Secret to Female Pleasure https://amzn.to/3G4XhyR
Women of Desire: A Guide to Passionate Love and Sexual Compatibility https://amzn.to/3wAnJNX
A Taste of Honey: Sexuality and Erotology in Islam https://amzn.to/3wzR6zY
Illuminating the Darkness: Black and North Africans in Islam https://amzn.to/3MCvJ6r
Illuminating the Difference: Black, White, and Brown Women https://amzn.to/3Lx7gOM
Instagram: http://instagram.com/habeeb_akande
All Habeeb's links: https://linktr.ee/habeebakande
Also, check out  Habeeb on The Orgasm Gap BBC documentary.

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